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Importance of Dad
DADDYTIME
I t is estimated that 80% of all children born today, will at some time in their
childhood, live in a home without a father. Research shows that children who grow
up with fathers who are involved in their lives, typically do better in school,
get into less trouble, get better jobs and careers later in life and have better
relationships with others.
What is an "involved" father?
Today's involved dad begins even before the pregnancy in establishing a good
relationship and learning to communicate effectively with his spouse. During pregnancy,
dad takes an active role in going to the prenatal classes and appointments and
showing concern and love for mom.
Taking on the responsibility as the primary labor support for mom is another important component. But even more than all of these "activities", it's important for an expectant dad to prepare for his role as a father.
Take the time, now, to have "daddy drills"---think about some of the emotionally-charged issues of new parenthood, such as 2:00 am feedings, who changes diapers, how will you deal with colic? What if the baby is sick, who will be baby's health care provider, which relatives can help out with the baby once you are home from the hospital, who will take care of all of the household chores? These are just a few of the issues that confront new parents. As a father, it is important to think about these topics, and develop a plan with your spouse, so that you can be a prepared father. Remember, much of the focus during pregnancy is on getting through labor, and not what happens after the birth. Parenthood is a lifelong process.
Take me back to: 7 months pregnant